Please help me, I am dying; My Girlfriend Passworded her Phone & Won't Give Me Access

Dear Oyato Talk Readers,

There's a girl I started dating a few months ago, we really love each other, but there's something disturbing me now. When we started dating, I used to check her phone and we used to quarrel about a few things I used to see, like messages with friends (guys) that were a bit inappropriate.


She said she would stop it, she did in a way, but there's this particular guy that she still tells she misses him and loves him. She swears that they are just friends, but I don't know what to believe. I don't even think she has told the guy that she is dating someone because the guy sends some messages sometimes that are meant for a girl that's more than a friend.

If the guy knew she was dating someone and he respects that, then he shouldn't be sending such messages to her. The thing now is that she has put a password on her phone and I don't have access to it, even when I promised I won't check her phone again.‎ I just need advice from the readers, I want to know what to do, I'm confused!

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