The Things My Woman Is Doing To Me

Some ladies of today think they are too wise, not knowing that it is their own life they are destroying in the long run. They think the only way is to manipulate a man to achieve their desire but it doesn't last:

I am a 29-year-old man and dating a 28-year-old lady. We are both lawyers; just out of national youth service and I really love her. Though she is beautiful, but she is very loose... I mean, once a man touches her in any sensitive part, she succumbs. She has even told me that she was once lured into lesbianism. She said she was a vir-gin but after pestering her; she opened up that she slept with a guy but claimed that it was mere fondling and not real s*x.

Recently, I asked her to tell me whether she slept with any man during our youth service
and she initially denied it. Knowing how emotionally frail she could be, I pressed further and she said that she met only one man and that they were both n*ked but that there was no s*x. [Laughs]! 

This is difficult to believe and I am afraid. Though she asked me to forgive her, I am afraid to go ahead. What do I do?

- A disturbed guy sent this message to Kemi. Below is her reply to him:

Not only is your girlfriend insincere, she is also playing on your emotions. You still believed she is a vir-gin? I think she is hiding so many secrets from you, she knows that if she marries you, you will discover she is not a vir-gin and had slept with many men. 

Hiding under the cloak of an unstable emotion is a device to whip up sentiments from you. If you prod further, she could tell you about other men. I think you are enchanted and so blind to see through her. But she is not a good woman to be married to.

Even if you forgive her, start looking for an alternative lady to be your wife.

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